okay so two parts needed for sat retrofit one basically unavailble the other can be made not bought.
not sure if anybody was trying to retrofit nav and needed this plug...its on intergalatic backorder so i went to Fry's (local electronics store) and got 8 pin "molex" plug with unistalled pins. Fits fine and with little adjustment works great.
also if people were looking for antenna and were buying new Fakra plug end (brown) - this is not necessary it is very easy to mod curry Fakra with drill bit (either drill or heat drill bit and melt) - all that is needed is to add a "notch".
anyways not sure if this helps anyone but i can take pics and get part numbers if needed.